"I do not know what my purpose is"

There are 3 main reasons why you can have difficulties with the purpose.

1. Unconscious beliefs you have from the culture you grew up/live in and the family

Solution: have a deep dive into the stereotypes you can unconsciously follow.

What is what do you want? It is yours or from the system, you are in/belong to.

2. Total control.

Do you need “to control” – if yes – what exactly? Do you need to know what happened all the time?

Solutions: trust to “what is”.

Work on the topic of trust.

Who controls you? Answer – the mind.

3. Fear of stepping up – fear of taking action.

Fear is a tool of our minds. Fear is our ally, not an enemy. Fear is a learned feeling.

Solution: have a dip dive what is your relationship with a father figure. What is “your way to the father figure”?

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